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Bryant makes case against idolizing jocks
By Rick Morrissey
Chicago Tribune
(KRT)
CHICAGO _ We're supposed to be shocked by Kobe Bryant's behavior, just as we were supposed to be shocked by Michael Jordan's behavior, just as we were supposed to be shocked by the behavior of (your favorite athlete here).
I'm shocked anyone is shocked. When players' statistics include career points, rebounds and DNA swabs, shock seems a little out of place.
You say you're not shocked, just disappointed in Bryant? I have a sports survival tip for you. It's impossible to be disappointed when you have no expectations of good behavior in the first place.
When Bryant, the former Mr. Clean, sits at a news conference and says he is guilty of adultery, but not sexual assault, it should tell us something once and for all: Never trust another happy word about athletes' happy marriages.

Kobe was different, we were told. Mature beyond his years. Married to the love of his life. Didn't run with the pack. A homebody. But then he wanted a few things not found on the room-service menu, had relations with a 19-year-old hotel worker who visited him while he was staying near Vail, Colo., and now finds himself in trouble.
If you looked at Bryant before the recent scandal and sighed, "The perfect guy with the perfect life," you need to get yourself to a re-education camp as soon as possible. And if you look at Jordan and still want to be like Mike, then you desperately need to bundle up in a coat of cynicism.
To begin with, if people are looking to Bryant for direction in their lives, there's something very wrong with them. And if they're allowing their children to learn about life through Bryant, they have dumped their parental responsibilities on somebody's doorstep and taken off, wheels squealing.
Of course, these are the same people who will give Bryant a standing ovation in his first game back with the Lakers.There is one line of thinking that says the NBA is in big trouble if Bryant is convicted of sexual assault.But that thinking assumes we looked at Bryant any differently than we did any other pro athlete. I'd like to believe most of us, hardened by years of bad behavior by our athletes, have learned to watch the games and be skeptical of the lives of the people who play them. It's sort of like watching Sean Penn in a movie.


My interest in the NBA had nothing to do with the personalities involved, so I won't watch any more or less now that Bryant has fallen. I don't see Tim Duncan throw in a jump hook over a defender and think, "What a wonderful human being. You know, I really need to pattern my life after his." And I tell my kids to look at the players straight on and not with adoration.
Drop your jaw at Allen Iverson's crossover dribble and roll your eyes at his fondness for handguns. Don't rely on anything more from Bryant than his dunks.
It's interesting and hardly surprising that one part of the Bryant saga is the effect of the criminal charges on his marketability. Put aside, for a second, how demeaning that topic is to all involved: to the alleged victim, to Bryant's wife, to Bryant's family, even to Bryant.
But it does get at the essence of what Bryant is: a commodity, a package, a highly stylized product. And what his handlers have been trying to sell us since he came into the NBA is class, the same currency others have used to sell Jordan. Bryant was the anti-Iverson. In other words, he was supposed to feel safer to white people.
And in one of the more sick twists to a sick story, there are those who believe Bryant's legal troubles will give him more credibility among young African-Americans with dollars to spend on basketball shoes and jerseys. What an insult to blacks.
Several years back I wrote a profile of a pro football player, quoting his wife as saying he had found Jesus. Apparently Jesus can be found in a strip club because a few days after the story ran, a friend of mine saw the player stuffing money into G-strings.
If you allow yourself to believe in these people, there's a decent chance you're eventually going to feel like a sucker. If you marry one, there's a decent chance you're going to end up a rich sucker. Is it worth the betrayal?

The Charge
Text of the charging document in the Kobe Bryant case:
State of Colorado, County of Eagle against Kobe Bean Bryant
Mark D. Hurlbert, District Attorney in and for the Fifth Judicial District of the State of Colorado, in the name and by the authority of the People of the State of Colorado informs the Court:
COUNT 1: that on or about the 30th day of June, 2003, in the said County of Eagle, State of Colorado, KOBE BEAN BRYANT unlawfully feloniously and knowingly inflicted sexual intrusion or sexual penetration on (name omitted) causing submission of the victim by means of sufficient consequence reasonably calculated to cause submission against victim's will.
Further the defendant caused submission of the victim through the actual application of physical force or physical violence, in violation of section 18-3-402 (1) (a), (4) (a), C.R.S; against the peace and dignity of the People of the State of Colorado, in violation of C.R.S. 18-3-402 (1)(a), (4)(a), as amended, (F3). SEXUAL ASSAULT-OVERCOME VICTIM'S WILL. Penalty 4 years up to life in the Department of Corrections, 20 years up to life if Probation imposed pursuant to 18-1.3-1004 C.R.S. And possible fine of $3,000 to $750,000.
Respectfully submitted this 18th day of July 2003.
Mark D. Hurlbert, District Attorney

LA Laker basketball player KOBE BRYANT shows remorse at the news conference Friday night at the Staples Center in Los Angeles. Bryant said, 'I'm innocent. I didn't force her to do anything against her will. I'm innocent.' Bryant was charged with felony sexual assault of a 19-year-old woman in a hotel near Vail, Colorado. Bryant admitted to adultery, but pleaded innocent of of the sexual assault charge. He faces four years to life in prison if convicted.
Photo by Armando Arorizo

 

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